What Girls Want From Boys
1. We want little surprises.
While sweet little surprises really do make us melt, most of the things we need can’t be bought. So pay attention, this is the important stuff….
2. We always want to talk to you everything.
About everything and about nothing.Be open to talking about the relationship. Always. If there’s something we’re unhappy with, be open to communicating about it. Don’t get defensive. Don’t shut us out. That won’t solve anything. Relationships are about growing together, getting stronger together, working better together, and making tweaks on both sides.
3. We want you to care about us.
Ask us how our day was. Because we need to feel like you’re still interested in what goes on in our lives.
4. We want you to believe in us.
Believe in us. Whatever our hopes, purpose, aspirations—believe in us.That courages us. Tell us we can do it.You can be the best supporter of us.
5. We want to feel appreciated.
For who we are, for what we do, and for what we’re striving to become.
6. We want to feel like we’re a team.
Teamwork requires you to work together, not against one another. It’s about understanding that the two of you are partners, not enemies.
7. We want you to stand up for us.
If someone is questioning choices we’ve made or actions we’ve taken, stand up for us. If someone is putting us down, stand up for us. If someone is minimizing our accomplishments, stand up for us.
8. We want you to pick us up when we fall.
There are probably going to be some days when we feel down. Let us cry on your shoulder. Tell us that we have value, and tell us to keep at it.
9. We want you to make us laugh.
This is probably the sweet spot for every woman.When we’re happy, it makes us happier; when we’re sad, it makes us happy.Without exception women love to laugh. 🙂